Potty Training After a Divorce or Separation
By Danna Henderson
Many parents share custody of their children, which presents a unique problem when it comes to potty training.
It’s best to discuss potty training and agree on a strategy before you start. Both parents need to be informed
about potty training and have the necessary potty training aids.
Potty Training Aids
To maintain consistency throughout the potty training process, it’s best if both parents either share the potty
training aids or purchase the same aids. This way your child will have a potty seat she is comfortable with at each
Potty Training Methods
Both parents need to use similar potty training methods so your child doesn't get confused. Make sure you are
both informed and decide how you’re going to handle potty training instruction, rewards, and accidents.
In some cases, the divorced or separated parents don’t have a good relationship and this level of communication
is not possible. If this is your situation, it may be easiest to pack your child’s potty seat along with a note
describing your potty training strategy (and any other necessary information) and send it with your child.